After getting my second divorce and then going through two short, one year relationships, I knew I had to change the way I was approaching being in relationship with a woman.
I was a good listener. I was attentive and devoted, but even with all of that it wasn’t enough and I questioned what I was doing wrong.
I felt like:
❌ The spark had faded, and romance feels like a chore.
❌ My efforts to be affectionate or intimate didn’t always land.
❌ I was unsure of how to create a deeper sexual and sensual connection.
I didn’t trust myself and as a result I didn’t inspire trust in the women I was with.
If you’ve ever felt that way, if you feel that way right now in your relationship, then this class is for you.
Most men think attraction and passion just “happen.” But the truth is, romance, intimacy, and desire are skills.
After my last breakup I did a deep dive into what I needed to change about how I showed up in relationship with someone else.
The fundamental realization I had was that I needed to respect and trust myself first, if I was going to show up in a way that would allow the woman I was involved with to feel the number 1 thing all women want to feel with men (and it’s not love):
They want to know that you’ve got them, because you trust and respect yourself and can lead yourself. They want to know they are safe.
Most men don’t do a good job of helping women feel safe in the relationship because the man isn’t leading himself. Instead he’s putting that leadership on the woman, which puts her into her masculine.
And that makes her feel very frustrated because she’s likely already spent all day at work being in the masculine. The last thing she wants is to feel like she has to be in her masculine with you. She doesn’t want to have be the leader in the relationship, or feel like your her third kid.
In Mastering Relationships, I show you how to learn the essential skills that will:
Allow her to feel safe with you.
Let you into her inner world.
Create the passionate connection and intimacy you crave from her.
Enables you to show up with the self-assured confidence and leadership she will find irresistible.
Show up being fully resourced and present and able to weather her storms, while also attracting her with your leadership.
This is a 6 week course. Each week we’ll be working on a key component of your relationship with yourself, and as a result your relationship with your romantic partner. However, even if you aren’t with someone right now, this class will still provide you the essential skills to fully show up in for the next relationship you’re in.
How do I know?
As I shared with you earlier, I went through 2 1 year relationships that didn’t work out. After the last relationship I spent a lot of time working on myself, healing traumatic patterns and figuring out what I really wanted in a relationship: To be with someone who shared the same values and had a similar vision for the world.
It was no longer an option to get into another relationship just because…
She looked hot.
She was great in bed.
She was adventurous.
She shared some similar interests, but wasn’t connected with me fully.
I had gotten with two people who ended up taking up valuable time and space and creativity. I couldn’t afford to get into another relationship where I was losing more of myself to someone else.
I realized that in order for me to get into a healthy relationship with someone else, I first had to get into a healthy relationship with myself, where I got clear on:
How I could be safe with myself.
How I could trust myself.
How I could resource myself with support from chosen communities.
How I could respect and care for myself.
What my values are and how I live those values.
What does any of this have to do with getting into a relationship with someone else?
The number one mistake men make when they get into a relationship with someone else is they abandon who they are, what they want, and the values they live by to get her approval. And at first she may not notice that you’ve done this, but inevitably she realizes it, and even if she can’t fully articulate it, she doesn’t feel safe with you, doesn’t trust you, and doesn’t believe you know what you want.
Can you blame her?
When a man is not safe for himself, he can’t be safe for anyone else.
When a man doesn’t trust himself, other people won’t trust him.
When a man doesn’t have brotherhood and community to support him, he isn’t doing his work to fully show up for himself, and he certainly can’t show up for anyone else either.
When a man doesn’t respect and care for himself, he is unable to respect and care for anyone else.
When a man doesn’t know his values and live by them, he is unable to set boundaries and lead himself and as a result he can’t show up as a leader in his life or relationships.
Does any of this sound familiar? Has this been part of your experience?
If the answer’s yes, then it’s time to step into your sovereignty and sign up for my 6 week course on mastering relationships. In this course you will learn:
How to become safe for yourself, so you can be safe for her.
Why self-respect and care create the foundation of successful relationships.
Why you need other men in your life to hold you accountable and keep you responsible.
How to trust yourself so you can trust in your relationship.
How to discover and live your values, so you embody them in your life.
How identify what you want and need, while also setting firm boundaries with others.
If you’re tried of being walked all over, tired of being disrespected, and ready to be in a relationship with someone who truly loves and values you, then this class is for you. The benefits you’ll get and the transformation you’ll go through are:
How to have the confidence and self-assuredness to show up as an embodied man in your relationships.
How to trust yourself and your decisions without abandoning who you are to please someone else.
How to give yourself the self-respect and trust that only you can give yourself.
How to stop walking on egg shells and speak up for your needs and wants.
How to set and stick with good boundaries that protect who you are.
How to get the intimacy and passion you’ve been longing for.
How to show up with the presence and safety she wants you to show her.
Class starts Tuesday April 15th, 5pm-6pm PST/8pm-9pm EST. We’ll meet Tuesday April 22nd, 29th, May 6, May 13th and May 22nd.
When you sign up you’ll get the following:
6 week recorded course with workbooks to help you dive deeper into the material ($600)
6 week group coaching with recordings shared afterwards ($597).
Bonus: 1:1 coaching session with Taylor to discuss specific challenges and issues you’re facing ($300)
Bonus: Access to the Meditation Mastery course ($197)
Total value $1791. YOUR Investment ($197)
Ready to master your relationships and get the intimacy and connection you deserve. Sign up below and let’s get started.